Going Slow....????

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Registered: 11-17-2008
Going Slow....????
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 2:27pm

I've never had a real serious boyfriend. I'm kind of particular in what I want. I've dated here and there, but it really doesn't go anywhere after the first 2 or 3 dates because I usually decide I don't want to be serious with them or I just think they're not for me. BUT I have known this guy for a few months from one of my classes and I think he's a fun guy to be around. We've hung out the past month and we started talking about seeing where this could go. He mentioned though that we should just take it slow. (He just got out of a messy relationship) This is where I'm lost. I think I have an idea of what "taking it slow" means, but I could be wrong. I'm sure everyone has different ideas or rules they go by. I feel like such a dork for not knowing, but please help me out here. Lol.

I really like this guy, he has all the qualities that I think fit my personality and I do want to see him more. But I want to try and avoid mistakes as much as possible that could sabotage this potential relationship. Thanks!

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 8:40am

He mentioned though that we should just take it slow. (He just got out of a messy relationship) From what I have seen this gives him a way out if and when he choses to.


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Registered: 05-11-2004
Wed, 11-19-2008 - 12:53pm

I totally agree with Bev. Very well said.


Keep us posted on how things are going.


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