Got my hopes up...
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|Wed, 01-06-2010 - 12:18pm|
I'm new here so thought I'd start with a lil history...
I'm 31 years old, have one child, stable career, independent, etc.. I'm divorced & have been single for almost 2 years. For the better part of the 1st year I was single all my friends told me to get out & start dating but I wasn't gonna go "looking for a man" then out of the blue someone walked into my life & swept me off my feet when I least expected it. I fell head over heals in love & he broke my heart. Since then.. I've been dating. It's like I didn't know what I was missing until I spent time with that man. My dating life is hilarious & I have the worst luck in the world. My friends say I'm too pickey (I'm not gonna settle) & I've had several really good guys that wanted instant relationships & that scared me away. Why is it that we always want the ones that don't want us???!!!
Anyway I recently met a man online & we started spending alot of time together. He was the 1st man in forever that I could be myself with. Our personalities & sence of humors matched perfectly! Everything was great, I had met his brother & was getting ready to introduce him to my daughter/family (we had decided to be exclusive). UNTIL..... I was spending the night with him (which I had done several times) & his "ex" showed up in the middle of the night causing drama, keyed my car, etc.. The next day she came back & told me why she was so mad. Apparently she had been with him the night before..when he had conveniently fallen asleep on the couch & didn't hear my calls all night. Needless to say thats over. BUT I still miss him!! I had really gotten my hopes up about this guy..
I liked him so much this I actually thought about believing his lies. But I'm too smart for that & theres no way I can walk into a new relationship with trust issues.
Back to square one!! UGH!!