Great Guy vs. Date Around
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|Sun, 07-23-2006 - 9:18pm|
I am a 39 yo with two boys (11 and 8) and just not sure what to do. I have been a widow since January, 2004. My husband died after a brief illness and caught an infection before he could get an organ transplant.
When I decided to get back into the dating game (December, 2004)I signed up with an online dating service and met a Great Guy. Everything I could ask for, sweet, caring, attentive, no children of his own, good job and very easy on the eyes. He adores me and my children and if he thought I would say "yes" would marry me tomorrow.
I just wonder if one woman can get so lucky on her first time out? I wonder if I want to go through the rest of my adult life only knowing what two men thought of me? Is it really so awful in the dating world that I should keep a Great Guy who loves me? Do men always change after you marry them (the first one did)? Should I listen to my older friends who say they would never marry again?
Any and all opinions are appreciated.