Is this guy trying to get back at me?

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Registered: 12-23-2007
Is this guy trying to get back at me?
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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 11:16am

So I had been talking to this guy for a month or so. I went to see my ex a few days ago for a friendly dinner, and also to put any feelings I had for my ex at bay. The guy I was talking to found out, deleted me from facebook/myspace. I had a talk with him and if he said he hadn't really decided if he was still gonna talk to me or not. I also told him I regretted going to see my ex, and told him that if I could take back what I did, then I would, but life doesn't work that way. I hadn't heard from him for 2 days, so I sent him a follow up IM and told him I had to see my ex to find out if it was over, and it's over. And I still wanted to talk to him, but if I don't hear anything, I'll know he felt otherwise.

We live 3 hrs apart and apparently he's been talking to this girl on the dating site (same one we met from) that lives twice as far away as me. Plus to top it off, she just got out of a relationship and said she isn't gonna ready for anything serious for quite some time cause she's been cheated on so much in the past. He's ONLY looking for a serious relationship/long term relationship. So I'm not quite sure how this would work out.. plus it seems like she had the same issues as me, so I don't know why he'd talk to her then.

Does it sound like he's only talking to her to spite me and because of what happened with me? I can't imagine he'd try to date someone who lives almost 6 hrs from him. He even had an issue with ME living 3 hrs away, but knew I was planning on moving back to the area where he's from. If he's only talking to her to spite me, then I think he's acting very immature.

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 11:58am

IMO you made 2 major mistakes here.


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