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Have I ruined it?
| Mon, 11-15-2010 - 1:04am |
Hi Everyone :)
I'm just wondering what everyone thinks about going to bed quite early with a guy.... and whether it ruins everything.
Back in August this year I met a guy out at a bar. We had a fantastic connection and ended up talking all night and leaving our friends and went for a late dinner and stayed out all night talking with a nice kiss at the end. It must have been about 8 hours or so.
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It looks like the drastic decrease in communications from what there was before, is indicating things have changed on his end. The old saying about how if a guy is really interested he will go out of his way to be in contact with you. He was going out of his way before, and now he isn't.
I hesitate to say that you ruined it by sleeping with him too soon. It just was not destined to work out and you just found sooner rather than later that he is just not that into you.
I've been married twice & both times I slept w/ them pretty early so that in itself doesn't necessarily ruin the relationship if otherwise you would like each other.