He hasn't called

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Registered: 09-22-2007
He hasn't called
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Sat, 10-31-2009 - 9:41am

I actually met a guy through eHarmony (I know it sounds lame but I kind of like it in a way).

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 1:19am

You're worried about not hearing from a guy who didn't understand "no"?


WHY?

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Registered: 09-22-2007
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 2:42pm

I guess I just felt a real connection with him.

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 4:37pm

You know, it's kind of like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. You're attracted, you're not ready for full-on sex, but you'd like more than a sweet kiss goodnight. It's a tough balance, I think, especially when you are are at his place or your place. I've decided it's much better (early on) to make out on the hood of a car in the parking lot rather than in your living room, LOL.

You didn't lead him on, but I understand how you feel. You've been honest with him now, so it's just a matter of waiting to see what happens. Hopefully you can get past any awkwardness and get to know each other better. Don't beat yourself up about this.

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Registered: 06-01-2009
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 7:56pm

So well said, had to write and tell you.


Plus, I swear, it doesn't just go away and get easy when you're older. It's still the same ole stuff.


I liked your: "I've decided it's much better (early on) to make out on the hood of a car in the parking lot rather than in your living room."


Yes, and the park works too and also a bench by the river. Right on!

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Registered: 11-19-2009
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 11:20am

Could be a several reasons, and you may never know, but here's one you might not have thought of.


A woman 'leading a guy on'

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Registered: 09-22-2007
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 11:41am

Hi Tim,


Thanks so much for your feedback.