help me please- valentines confusion

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Registered: 10-17-2006
help me please- valentines confusion
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Tue, 02-10-2009 - 1:38pm

Ok Ive been dating this guy for about a month now...weve been on prob. 5 or 6 dates.....we talk every day. Valentines Day is this Saturday and he hasnt mentioned anything about doing anything?

Is he going to ask me out? Isnt it time he does it NOW? lol I dunno- its 4 days away? And if he doesnt aske me to hangout- do I forget about him and move on to the next? lol

Thank you.

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Registered: 10-14-2001
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 9:01pm

If he doesn't ask you out, that would not be a good sign.


Here is what I'd do....if he doesn't ask you out by Wednesday...then you will not be availabe on Valentine's.

Soliel
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 11:41pm

I think 5-6 dates is a very awkward time to have Valentine's Day fall ;-).

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 02-11-2009 - 3:34pm
Maybe he likes you but is socially kind of awkward and doesn't know what to do. Valentine's Day just has all these romantic connotations and it's difficult when you have only dated a few times. He probably doesn't know if he should get you candy & flowers (yes), whether you are expecting more than that, whether if he asks you out for a nice dinner and there are other romantic couples at the restaurant, whether you'll be thinking that the relationship is more serious than he wants it to be right now. I agree that you shouldn't go at the last minute, but I don't know if I would write him off just because of that if he has other good qualities. A great guy is hard to come by.