Help...How do I find a GOOD man?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2008
Help...How do I find a GOOD man?
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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 7:43pm

Hi Everyone,


I'm new at this site and am hoping for some advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2007
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 4:13pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 4:20pm

Hi Bearlover,


I was 36 when I left my ex husband who was also abusive (emotionally and verbally).

Jilly

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2007
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 7:47pm

Oh man join the club.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2007
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 8:03pm
No seriously you should slow down a little bit.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2008
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 6:06am

Hi Bearlover67:


I'm new back into the dating world too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2008
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 10:46am
You sound like me when I lost my soulmate. I start the internet to felt sad, and tried a couple of date they went wrong also. I don't know why the men want sex first I guess to see if want keep the relationship going before getting to far into knowing you. NO what want oral sex also on the first date What the heck!!!! Well am still alone also so I
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2008
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 12:01pm
Starting over isn't easy. You need to put first things first. You had a man in your life for 22 years. Try finding out more who you are first. I find that people who like themselves and know themselves are the ones who are the happiest and men like happy women. So. Know thyself enough to be happy w/o a man and you will have many men find you. I swear it is
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2003
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 3:30pm

You want to find a good man to love you - but first you need to find YOURSELF.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2008
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 6:59pm

Yeah, well Good Luck is all I can say.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 8:55pm

bearlover67
I'm so proud of you to leave the relationship.
In some other women ... don't get to leave or they're dead(sorry but it's true)

This is time for you to shine....
Time to take care of you.
In due time , you'll find someone.
Go out with friends... enjoy time with family & friends.
I wish you well, bearlover67.


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