How To Approach A Guy @ His Work
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How To Approach A Guy @ His Work
| Tue, 05-06-2008 - 7:51am |
My God, I cant believe I am even posting this. A few weeks back I bumped into this gorgeous guy in a store that he works in.
He approached me but

Unfortunately, guys are pretty worthless when you try to give him "opportunities" to meet you. He's not going to make the first move because he's at work and he's afraid of harrassing you. You are going to have to make the first move. By first move, I mean you have to FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!
You have to let him know you're open to him making the "first move."
If that fails you need to use some guerilla tactics and trick him into asking you out.
It's awesome that you're getting back into the dating game, just don't get discouraged and play it cool. It's OK to be nervous, but it's better to fake it til you make it...
Good Luck! Keep us posted!
Ren
heyyy thank you so much for your reply!!!
well i drove there last night, didnt go alone i went with my sister, who has now branded me a stalker / pyscho!!!
anyway we parked up and then i started thinking WHAT ON EARTH AM I DOING!!!!! and drove away.
had to go and do my grocery shopping and bumped into my sisters teacher who was like oh i saw u at ***** didnt u get anything???
and my sister was like err no we decided not to :|
dont u think its a bit too soon to go back? its been over 4 weeks :S i really dont know how to flirt. Well im going out for my bday on fri nite, i will practice then :) and maybe if i get tipsy enough, ask a few guys how they would prefer to be approached by a girl LOL
But yeah i definately get what you mean about how i have to make it known to him that im open to him makin the first move!!! That made a lot of sense, didnt even look at it like that!!
Z
That made so much sense its unbelievable. I cant believe how right u were about the attached outcome business. I swear when u bump into somebody so good looking u start imagining ur whole life with this person (thats me being stalkerfied again) but i am going to let go now for sure. Thats the best way to go about it otherwise if he turns around giving me the cold shoulder i might end up getting all upset about it! Dont want that now!!!
I was actually thinking today (before i read this post) about whether he might end up being somebody