how long until he should ask you out on a second date?

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Registered: 01-06-2012
how long until he should ask you out on a second date?
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Sat, 09-15-2012 - 5:39pm

Thursday night i went on a great date with a single dad of two kids. he has full custody. night went great. he asked if he could kiss me, we kissed. he asked if we could walk, we did, he kept kissing me. he said he was having a great time, etc.

anyway date was great. the next day he texted me in the morning and said "how are you? I had a really great time last night". i wrote back saying i did too. We texted a bit throughout the day...but here is the thing, he didnt say let's do it again, or when can we do it again or whatever. usually, when i have been out with guys that ask me out again, they say let's do it again, and then a day later follow up trying to make a plan. any chance he is still going to do that? or probably not? ugh

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Registered: 11-28-1999

Well here's the thing--there is no "should" because everyone is different.  Not to mention that being a single dad with full custody, he probably needs to get a babysitter in order to go out.  I'd think that if I didn't hear from the guy for a week, that would mean that he probably wasn't interested.