How Would you all Take This????
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|Fri, 07-28-2006 - 1:53pm|
I have kind of a stupid question… I just need a little advice on how you would all take something that happened to me today…
I met a guy on match.com a few days ago. We exchanged a couple of emails on there, then it went to IM's on aol, then to the phone where we had an awesome 2 hour conversation. He called me the next day and we spoke for a bit again (yesterday).
Let me give a bit of background to help you all understand the story first. I am 29, he is 36. He works as a limo driver. We live about 1/2 hour apart.
Ok, so he calls me yesterday and says "I know it's short notice, but I was wondering what you're doing tonight because my boss called and said my pickup cancelled.. Would you want to go meet?" I had a nice convo with him and wanted to meet him so I said "sure" and we made up a time to meet and we met. There was instant attraction, he told me I looked better in person and I could just tell he liked me and I was very happy with what I saw too. He also was very funny and had me laughing all night long. The only thing with him was if I let him, he would've had sex with me last night. We kissed and fooled around a little bit, we did a few things, but I was NOT going to sleep with him on the first date. So anyway, we hung out until 2am (we met up around 8:30-9pm). He said he would definitely be calling me and not to make any plans for Saturday because he wanted to see me again. He also called me when I got home at 2 just to make sure I made it home ok. Now here's where my question lies….
He said he was going to call me today during my lunch hour. So 12:40 comes and he calls. I pick up my phone and it was very bad connection and he was driving. He says "ok, I'm just calling you to say hi because I told you I would"… I thought that was a little rude. Then I think he asked me when I get home and I told him 4pm and his phone cut out. I called him back and got nothing. So I waited and tried one last time because I really didn’t hear anything he said before, and he picks up and says in a hushed voice "I'm driving someone home, that's why I can't talk, plus I'm in a bad area and it would be nice if I could hear you and its very frustrating, I'll call you at 4 and he sounded like he was about to hang up on me or something. He just sounded pissy and cold and I am really upset now because I don’t know what to think. Is this guy really an a**hole who was just trying to put up a front to try and get in my pants last night and when he didn’t now he's going to be a nasty a**?? Or was he just working and unable to talk?? I don’t know whether to give him the benefit of the doubt or not. I don’t even know now if he'll really even call me later because he sounded kind of irritated at me for calling him back when he couldn't talk. I know this sounds immature to write about, but the thing is I was very hurt in the past and I'm sometimes a little too analytical and careful, plus I took a year off from dating, so I'm not used to how to handle dating things.
Please help, need opinions.