I am a guy, what am I feeling and what is happening???

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2006
I am a guy, what am I feeling and what is happening???
3
Sun, 02-27-2011 - 5:43pm

Hey Guys.

I have a question for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

Do you keep asking her to hang out & then never follow up?

Avatar for floridagirl52
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2006

I agree with Musiclover. If you want to spend time with her, make it a date, not just "let's hang out." I would lose interest in a man who asked me out and then didn't follow through. I would also assume he was seeing someone else. Your eratic behavior and confession might be scaring her too.

It sounds to me like you just aren't ready to be in a relationship. Until you work out whatever issues you are having, you might want to take a break from dating.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2011
You definitely aren't ready to date and it is great that you