I don't know if I blew it, I feel cheap!
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I don't know if I blew it, I feel cheap!
| Mon, 11-03-2008 - 5:35pm |
Hello all, I hope someone can shed a light to my dilemma.
| Mon, 11-03-2008 - 5:35pm |
Hello all, I hope someone can shed a light to my dilemma.
I don't think you blew it. If he pulls back now its because he is just the type of man who is only into the chase. I doubt thats the case if he waited 2 months.You are both adults,I think 2 months is a long time to hold out...so congrats on making it that long...I wouldnt have!
It sounds like you're asking two questions -- one did you blow it and the other should you feel cheap.
Thank you so much for taking the time to analyze my situation, I really appreciate it!
What do I think?
Again, thanks for all your wisdom and insight in helping me see everything in a different light.
I had sort of the same experience with my first guy after I got divorced (I'm 44). He came on pretty strong and I was very, very flattered. The sex was phenomenal. But, the communication sucked. He was great and attentive when we were together, but I can think of only two times when he initiated a phone call or text. He wanted to meet my kids, but wouldn't commit to any kind of relationship. Very confusing.
In the end, I think he wanted an FWB situation, but I am not that kind of person. I didn't like feeling that I could be brushed aside so easily. We had a spat, he "came back" but it wasn't the same, so I told him that I really wanted to be with someone who really wanted to be with me. Sometimes I miss his company, but I would rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't want to be with me that much.
I've heard people say the same thing, that with the right person there isn't much wondering.
You got it!