I had my date but dont know what to do n ow

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Registered: 01-02-2008
I had my date but dont know what to do n ow
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Mon, 05-02-2011 - 9:52am

Hi everyone;

Well? I had my date with a guy from OLD last

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 05-02-2011 - 10:00am

I don't think that people should have to decide after one date whether they are going to have a relationship--I'd say the 1st date is usually kind of awkward where people don't know each other at all, so I'd probably give the guy another shot just to see.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 05-02-2011 - 11:21am

I know what you are saying music and I totally agree and that is why I will go out with him again.

What I think would concern me is that this guy wears his heart on his sleeve. I could tell that he would not want to take this slow . I could see him wanting sex right away and just going full stream ahead and I being who I am wouldnt be able to stop it either.

Its like someone would have to be the grown up and that most likely would have to be me. The grown up in this relationship and I dont think I want the job.

I have to find the balance here cause I am sure he will just try and want to be in my life alot. I am not sure I am ready for someone so extreme and because of the way he is I think he is the type of person who wants it all or nothing.

Know what I mean?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 05-02-2011 - 7:01pm

The way I would first describe my bipolar ex is "he wore his heart on his sleeve."

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 05-03-2011 - 8:26am

Hi;

Sounds like we had the same ex husbands. Mine was verbally abusive