I messed up...are we doomed?
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|Sun, 04-28-2013 - 8:04pm|
I screwed up, drank too much and had sex on a first date. I really like this guy (obviously. haha). We're going out again next week and although he has been sporadic with his contact, it hasn't been anything unusual for a guy I've only been on one date with. But that fact that we had sex just sort of complicates the whole thing.
We talked about it and I told him it was a mistake and that it can't happen again until we get to know each other better. He seemed to understand and promised not to rush me, but then the next minute he started making all these sexual innuendos.
I'm worried that he's only in it for the sex. I guess I only have myself to blame for that. But is there any way to recover from this? And how do I find out his true intentions without resorting to the dreaded "where is this going?" talk? Ugh. Way too early for that. I guess I should just wait it out and see if anything develops, but like I said, I really like this guy and I'm already getting my heart tangled up in him.