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I'm Questioning the Relationship
| Sun, 03-08-2009 - 11:56am |
I'm causing myself unnecessary aggravation by constantly questioning the status of my relationship.
| Sun, 03-08-2009 - 11:56am |
I'm causing myself unnecessary aggravation by constantly questioning the status of my relationship.
Its probably a defense mechanisum that tries to keep you from being hurt.
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>it will show through and you may come off to him as controlling and desperate.
Absolutely not. I am not controlling, nor desperate, nor have I ever acted that way, nor is there any chance I will in the future. 40-plus years is a pretty good track record. I am not that kind of person.
>is this your inner voice telling you something is not right with him or this relationship?
The relationship is absolutely wonderful. Wonderful. There is nothing wrong. There are no red flags. There's nothing that even gives me pause.
I imagine the reason behind my fears is past heartbreak, and the fact that I've got -- not a good, but a GREAT man, whom I don't want to lose (ie be heartbroken again).
Absolutely not. I am not controlling, nor desperate, nor have I ever acted that way, nor is there any chance I will in the future. 40-plus years is a pretty good track record. I am not that kind of person.
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I understand you were saying it could "appear" to him that I was controlling or desperate. Perhaps I should've used that word in my reply.
Your welcome, although I probably did not help out much.
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