It's so disappointing

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Registered: 05-02-2009
It's so disappointing
Mon, 05-04-2009 - 3:08am

We were co-workers and when we first knew each other, he seems to be quite fond of me. I am attached and he's single. He got my number from another coworker and offered to drive me to work. We stayed pretty near each other. He's been very sweet during those times, bringing me dinner when I missed a company function, walking to my desk to make small talk, and I caught him looking at the direction of my desk so many times. I used to ask him out for casual dinner after work too, couple of times, we make our own way back home, he doesn't send me back, it's not dating whatever.


Things changed when I left my job and he simply do not respond to my asking, whenever I wanted to meet up. He will give replies like "have to see my schedule".. etc, like i can't even make an appointment with him if it's more than 12 hours! There was once when I was really upset