Ladies, should I let him kiss me???
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| Sat, 02-28-2009 - 5:19pm |
I know, this is a stupid question but stay with me for a sec.
There's this guy at work. We don't chat much but he was nice to me since day one. He added me to his facebook through a friend but we never chatted we never seem to be online at the same time. He once said something about getting together to watch a movie someday (we both love movies) but that was it. Now last thursday I was online and he blunt out asked me out on a date for friday. I told him I couldn't and that we should leave it for next week.
Well, today we chatted for more than an hour and he told me he finds me very attractive and nice but he doesn't know me and he's like to get to know me. And he also said that he really wants to kiss me (it was something I said that made him say that). When I told him that he should pick a day for the date next week he said that if it was for him he'd see me today AND during the week.
He's not the jerk type of guy. But now that I read what I wrote maybe he's just trying to get me into bed. Well, I don't know. The kiss is something he's got to earn! Would you let him kiss you if you were in my place? I know that I have to do what I feel is right at the time, but I think the kiss is something he should earn. Although I think I would really like being kissed by him...
Ok, I am blabbing now. I'm gonna stop and read what you have to say about this.
Thank you for your time.

He's coming on very strong and he sounds very determined.
Maybe I'm just being naive... maybe he just wants sex. My gut is telling me otherwise, he's not the I-just-want-to-get-laid type. And I sensed he's looking for a relationship. Anyway he's going fast.
Ok i need to stop babbling. Sorry!
Oh, heck, kiss him. Even make out with him if you're feeling it. It doesn't mean you have to go to bed with him at that time.
I think our instincts can tell us a lot, and it sounds like you sense he is a good guy, maybe just flirtatious. I say go for it if it feels right. If you kiss him and he wants more (not always a bad thing, LOL) you can always say you want to take it slow.
Most guys are not going to say no to sex... even the nice ones. They are programmed to want it LOL. It doesn't mean thats all they want. This is why the girl has to lead physically and put the brakes on if she isn't comfortable so that he has time to get to know her and want her for more than just her physical attributes ;) If he's a good guy he will then back off and not complain. If he does he is just after one thing.
A kiss is nothing but fun and you should just go ahead and do it. It won't mean you are cheap or easy ;) I'd be flattered a guy says he wants to kiss you. If you take offence you're just training him to not ever give you compliments of that nature. If he gets rude or crass... then you can get offended, otherwise enjoy the attention. You're lucky as most girls complain they don't get enough ;)
Lsa xoxo
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