Mr Unreliable or Mr Busy?
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Mr Unreliable or Mr Busy?
| Mon, 10-05-2009 - 7:25am |
So I've dated a guy three times in the last two months. Initially he seemed all into me, but he has been canceling on dates saying he's busy (This seems to be the story of my dating life). Two times I actually get stood up. Both times he arranges the date. The first time he texts me saying he forgot his parents were in town, the second time he just doesnt answer his phone until several hours after we were to meet, saying his phone was dead and he thought I was going to be busy. On nights leading to the plans for dates he texts me regularly and is sweet. I'm beginning to think that this guy is Mr Unreliable rather than Mr Busy and that he is probably just practicing until someone better comes along. That being said, I wonder why I had the patience for him all this while. Can anyone shed some insight as to why a guy would make so many excuses?

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yup... I've had
My Mr. Toxic was notoriously "busy". Once he couldn't see me because he had to play golf all week (had lost his job, didn't seem to think finding a new one was critical...) so he couldn't see me at all. Or he was out with "friends" but of course I couldn't come along. Drinks in the city with colleagues was also a big one.
Now, that I have totally stopped contact since Mike Brady came into the picture, he sends me texts saying "Are we still talking? I miss you". I don't even respond.
Suddenly not so busy. But I am, permanently, Mike Brady or no Mike Brady.
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