At my whits END!!

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Registered: 01-14-2009
At my whits END!!
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Wed, 04-25-2012 - 3:49pm

I have been dating this guy for a little over 3 months....from my understanding we really enjoyed eachothers company. In the beginning we talked on the phone alot..laughed and joked all the time..it wasnt until we were dating almost 2 months that I had sex with him and it was great..

Just this past weekend he invited me to his son's birthday party where I met his parents and other relatives as well....so my thinking is he REALLY likes me!!....I had no reason to think otherwise..he was very attentive..took me out every weekend and we spent time at eachothers houses 2-3 days a week..

The party was Sunday and we had a really good time. Me and his mom talked and she seemed very nice and acted as if she liked me..we parted ways that night with a kiss and I went home because I have to be at work early the next day...I got home and he called...we talked about 20 minutes and said goodnight....

Well..the next day I didnt get my usual "good morning beautiful" phone call...so I let that go but even by my lunch time I still hadn't heard from him...my thinking is.."he must be busy and he will call before end of my shift because he ALWAYS does.....still no call by end of my workday...so on my way home I call him...no answer...I call again a few hours later...nothing....I text before I went to bed..nothing...

Its day 2 not hearing from him and I'm crushed!! Like what happened??? I couldnt sleep last night so I texted like 4am asking what was wrong and if he doesnt want to see me anymore to atleast tell me why...nothing.....

I know he is not hurt or anything because one of his best friends works with me and I seen him today but he acted as if he really didnt want to speak to me for some reason...usually he is very friendly...I dont know what to think but I am not going to try and call or text again..I did nothing wrong..!

I'm jus soo tired of the games...I'm a good woman..employed..house..car..smart..attractive..nice...this is the 2nd time this has happened to me in the past year...the 1st time I really didnt mind lol but this one I really liked!!

I'm beside myself right now...thanks for listening

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2008
Wed, 04-25-2012 - 5:55pm
aw that sucks hun. ;( I'm pretty much dealing with the same thing. I just don't get it....why do some guys think that its fun. I go to the same gym as the last guy that did this to me. So I'm pretty sure I will have a few choice words to say to him...when I see him there.... My adrenaline will be high from my workout.
hugs and hang in there :/
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Registered: 01-14-2009
Wed, 04-25-2012 - 7:08pm

Not 5 minutes after I posted this..he called...says he's been under the weather and very stressed out (he owns 2 small businesses)...truthfully I need not