New to dating & getting out there! help!

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Registered: 09-25-2004
New to dating & getting out there! help!
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Fri, 05-30-2008 - 10:25pm

I've only been in long term relationships and they've always developed from a close friendship.
I have no dating experience. I need advice and help. Here are some specific questions, but any other advice is apreciated.

If a guy buys you a drink at the bar, but you're not really interested in him, how do you casually break off contact without making it awkward?

If a guy is interested in you, but you're not interested, how do you show that without being mean?

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Registered: 04-30-2008

"If a guy buys you a drink at the bar, but you're not really interested in him, how do you casually break off contact without making it awkward?"


There is nothing that says you can't politely thank him but tell him you can't accept.