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| Thu, 02-19-2009 - 5:03pm |
Hi all,
Well here's what's up. I meet a great guy on line almost 3 months ago. We meet through one of the dating sites. We spent sometime chatting, then on to the phone, then we meet in person. All was more then good, by the 5th week, we both decided to see where this would go.
So, we agreed to remove ourselves from both of the dating sites. Things are great except I've noticed that he returns and logs back in to both sites. He told me in the beginning that he had made some long distant pen pals,but I have a problem with this. Is this a normal feeling? Am I over reacting? Do I ask him to stop, choose, what?
He has been a great guy and I know he cares for me a lot.
So, any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks
gem

So are you saying he took his profiles down as agreed but then put them back up?
Thanks for your reply. No, we both agreed to hide them.Which they still both are, on both sites. He is still just corresponding daily on both site with ladies he meet before me.Which I might add was less then a month before. At least that is what I believe he goes on daily? I don't know I just feel like there is, or must be something there to have to check your mail everyday? I realize they are not in his daily life physically, but I'm just not comfortable with this. And I'm sure if it was in the other woman ballpark, they would not be either. He's a very articulate writer and I'm sure that the other women might think that there is more to there pen pal thing then he realizes there is.
And what do they talk about the weather, politics, religion? Don't get me wrong, I find nothing wrong with people having friends of the opposite sex. However not from a singles Website where both were looking for a relationship, and others knew that. Does this sound sane?
I realize they are not in his daily life physically, but I'm just not comfortable with this if there is anything that you are not comfortable with then dont do it.
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Hi Sheri,
As far as hiding the profile, on some sites, like POF, for example, even if the profile is hidden, if you have favorited someone, or they've favorited you, your profile and WHEN you've been online shows up.
Quite clearly.
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