Oh no--I may have been a bit pushy with someone. What should I do now?

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Registered: 04-10-2011
Oh no--I may have been a bit pushy with someone. What should I do now?
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Sun, 04-10-2011 - 11:22am

Hi, all - ok, I had a little date last night (a movie and drinks) and could really use some advice, as I don't think it's going well!

Ok, I recently worked with someone and we were a bit taken with each other but didn't really spend time outside of the office together until after I left. He made all of the plans at first (and tried to give me a peck on the cheek once, but I deflected it out of shyness), then we spent a few weekends apart (he didn't really seem troubled that he didn't see me).

I made our plans for these past 2 weeks (so I was the one contacting him), and he didn't try to kiss me last night, though he could've :( While we were having drinks we had a friendly disagreement and after I got home I texted him that he was right; he always texts me back but this time, he didn't! I think that I sometimes irritate him a bit when I text him or get in touch this much. Also, I mentioned that a male classmate who I'm doing a project with sometimes texts me to stay in touch--this was dumb of me.

Advice please as to how I should proceed without being pushy! I like him.

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Registered: 04-21-2008

Hi there.

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