I guess I am one who doesn't see much future in a relationship where you are 2000 miles away from each other but I know that some people do end up together starting out very long distance--I still think it's rare. I wonder--are you young & inexperienced? Since you said there is an age difference, maybe he feels that he would be taking advantage of you? Did you ever talk about what kind of future relationship each one of you wanted? Are you thinking about marriage & kids while he's just thinking about having some fun? of course it seems to me if he only wanted casual fun, he could get that closer to home. There are just a lot of unanswered questions here to be able to find out what is going on.
Thanks for your response. To answer some of your questions , I'm in my 30's, we did speak of a future... We both wanted to be in a committed relationship, then marriage & children . We got very close he shared some very intimate details about his life. We spoke of me relocating when the relationship got to that level since W my job I could live anywhere. To answer your other question about inexperience , I never dated a guy who didnt shower me w kisses and affection. For me that's what I require to get my engines going....I think he is used to women throwing themselves all over him bc of his job
I agree with you, I think he is just not that into you anymore. It is no one's fault, just sometimes things change with one or both people and you both move on.