Playing the "b*tch" worked!

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Playing the "b*tch" worked!
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Tue, 08-15-2006 - 11:06am

I read a thread about this on here the other day...

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Tue, 08-15-2006 - 4:50pm
Yea!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Wed, 08-16-2006 - 9:04pm

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

I'm SO glad to read you are dating!!! Whoohoooooo!!! Some lucky guy will get a great girl!!!!!

(I have been a B*T*H with my ex--that's fun, but i dont like being one with other people for the most part...I usually end up feeling guilty)...

Miss ya girlie girl!

Deb

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Wed, 08-16-2006 - 10:35pm
Very similar situation - although we aren't dating. We are old friends who have recently started talking about "surpressed feelings" and pursuing a relationship. We've been friends for 14 years, and now since we've started this topic of conversation, he started getting a little short with me when I call him "too much". So, I decided I didn't need it, and decided to take a break from him for a while. Sure enough a few days later, he's calling me up to check on how I'm doing and acting much more like the man I know. And he's called 3 days in a row, now I seem to recall being treated like leech for calling him that often.
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Sun, 08-27-2006 - 1:25pm
Yep welcome to the world of the "Bitch". It seems to work. So far it has for me.
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Mon, 09-11-2006 - 10:42pm
Any new updates, Luna???

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Mon, 09-11-2006 - 11:11pm

Ahh, good timing! Yep, the guy visited this weekend. We went out on Saturday evening. I had to be back by 1am for the sitter. But, DS was sleeping so my date came in, with a bottle of wine. It was VERY late when he left... Then, we had lunch on Sunday before he headed back home (he lives 4 hours away). I think we'll be seeing each other again soon...

I wanted to add that this was my first real date since STBX and I split over two years ago. I've been very selective about who I'd go out with. It paid off! ; )




Edited 9/11/2006 11:14 pm ET by luna1940
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Tue, 09-12-2006 - 8:26am
Cool!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~