right time???

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Registered: 10-26-2007
right time???
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Sun, 06-01-2008 - 6:39pm

I'm starting to date again and in my late 20's. I don't know when is the right time to sleep with someone or at what point you know that you are exclusive?

For some reason in the past anyone I was actually dating I didn't sleep with but at other times had casual sex...so I would kinda like to figure out the right way to do things...I do want to eventually end up in a serious relationship when I meet the right person. :-)

Thanks!


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Registered: 12-14-2005
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 7:49pm

I guess it depends on who you think is the right person.

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Registered: 05-21-2008
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 5:16pm

Whenever you feel its 'right' and are comfortable. That is going to be different for different people, and in different relationships. Don't feel pressured - by others, by expectations, or even desires. There are times you want sex physically, but know that its too soon and you need to get to know each other more first. Or not. :) Its really all a personal decision, just make sure you are comfortable with that decision.


You know you are exclusive when you discuss it. :) Make no assumptions.