should i be concerned?

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Registered: 03-15-2011
should i be concerned?
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Tue, 03-15-2011 - 2:29pm

should i worry and be anxious if i see the guy i like adding new girls to his facebook?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 03-15-2011 - 3:51pm

How many friends does he have on FB?

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 9:15am

I suppose if the only friends he is adding are cute girls one after another then I might be worried, but if he also adds guys then I don't see a problem. I don't see how him adding anyone to facebook is going to hurt you this weekend?? You are not even dating.

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Registered: 03-15-2011
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 10:02am

no, we're not dating.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 10:37am

What is the purpose of you going to see him?

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 11:21am

Hi

Well the guy sounds like he is keeping his options open . You know when the next best thing comes along. He might be fishing around for other women. They all do dont they especially on facebook and dating sites.

I dont trust the whole facebook thing. I am on there and I see a guy that I like all the time. He wont meet me or anything and I havent friended him yet. we met OLD with texts; emails and phone calls but he never commits to meeting. So I let it go but when I see him on facebook with all of his friends and alot are girls I cant help but wonder who likes him more than a friend.

Actually there is a woman he talks to on there about health and all because she is a nutritionis and they must know each other because he is a health nut.. Anyway; I sometimes look at his wall and read stuff. (yes; I am a

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Thu, 03-17-2011 - 9:22am

So if you know he doesn't want to date you, but he wants you to come over to his place, then all he wants is one thing. I hope you realize that. If that is what you want, then by all means go and 'meet' him. If you want to actually start dating someone, then forget this guy.