Should I sleep with my gay friend?

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Should I sleep with my gay friend?
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Fri, 08-08-2008 - 4:16pm
I have a good friend who's a gay guy.
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 11:05am

The not being terribly attracted to him may be a bit of a problem, but if you're interested, go for it. You sure won't have to face the common FWB problem of one of you falling in love and the other one not. You have the advantage of knowing why the two of you are enjoying each other with no illusions.

Make sure both of you are tested, and make sure that you come to an understanding that either of you is free to have another partner but that pretty well means that you two are done. Why take the health risks?

Good luck

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 1:35pm
I can't imagine that having sex between 2 people who aren't really attracted to each other would be very satisfying and it might ruin your friendship too.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 4:03pm

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:16pm
I wouldnt. If i am sleeping with someone on a regular basis who i already care for and have a relationship with, im am going to eventually want more. You guys are already good friends-whats to stop one of you from falling in love. Sex is not "just sex" when it is between genuine friends-a line is always crossed.
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Registered: 05-31-2006
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 10:41pm
I don't
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