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Should I?
| Wed, 08-16-2006 - 6:54pm |
OK, I "joined" Match.com, where there's an abundance of guys to look through--I joined because I got a "wink" and an "e mail" and I wanted to see who from.

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I was excited because i had a guy email me and say let's get together. then he sent his phone and told me to call him. so i did -- it was a short call. found out he knows people who live in the same "hood" i do . said i will save telling you who it is for "in-person" to make it more mysterious. well since then no word whatsoever. took my home and cell numbers and disappeared. seems it takes him a long time to get back to a message. let him a quick email today -- how ya doing? my curiousity got the best of me -- blah blah blah. no answer.
so go figure. should i give it some more time or just accept i got blown off?????? it's stupid to say things and not follow through. i would rather hear -- don't want to continue this or not gonna work. but nothing --???????
Best wishes :-)
I learned a lot from online dating. I have had regrets that make me cringe. I hated having my heart broken by 2 really great players. I sometimes go over my mind why I did certain things. I made bad choices along the way too. I feel terrible about that, but my girlfriend said that to get to the good, one goes through the bad. I guess such experiences really make one appreciate the great catch even more. I just wish I can let go of my dumb mistakes (yes, they were dumb - nothing major at all). Gee, I get hard on myself - ack!
Anyhoo, I am very happy with my newfound companion. We really do mesh very well in many ways and I feel lucky. I am incredibly grateful for such a friendship!
I know exactly how you feel. I just want a friend -- i hate games. Like i said too high school for me. We all make mistakes don't be so hard on yourself. I was talking to my friend, Brenda who moved to florida last year. Up comes this window and this guy starts talking. Looking for someone to talk to and have some fun with. Okaaaaaaayyyyy -- then it comes out he's still married, bored out of his mind. Go away !! I am not going down that road -- i loved the line " as soon as our kids are on their own we are going our separate ways" PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEEE
You sound like you went through the frustrating part -- i refuse to go to bars -- not my scene at all and the people are ......... well you know. Dont' beat yourself up -- sounds like you have a nice friend now.
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