Sick of the Scene!

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sick of the Scene!
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Mon, 02-21-2011 - 3:12pm

I'm 25 years old, and my last relationship lasted a little over a year and ended very VERY badly (he dumped me over facebook).

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 02-21-2011 - 8:49pm

The thing w/ OLD is that there are a lot of guys you have to weed through to find a good one.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 1:05pm

You sound like a great catch!

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sat, 03-05-2011 - 5:24pm

Perhaps they are intimidated by me.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 9:54am

Hi;

boy do I know that feeling of dumb men.. There was a guy I met online and we had become friends. We had alot in common but we hadnt met yet.. I assumed we were going to so I held on with phone calls, texts, and emails but after two months of this of hoping and praying we never met.. I was so upset because we had so much in common and he is missing out on one of the best people in life. why didnt he just take the chance and meet and see ...He told me that he dates but I guess he just didnt want to date me.. (lesson learned).. He always had excuses as why he couldnt meet. Too far, too this or that or whatever so I gave up on him.. I am so stupid in that I let it go on for almost two months...

I told him I was done with the cyber thing and he was missing out but that is the way it is right?

We havent spoken in weeks and I was feeling very sad as I had that stupid hope it could be something..

only bad thing is that when I log on to OLD I see him on there and my heart drops...

oh; well????

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 4:36pm

I probably already said this somewhere but I had a similar thing happen to me--I was emailing a guy & he was going excruciatingly slow.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 5:04pm

Hi Music;

Wow; I know what you mean.. What is with these guys? Its like third grade or something. A guy last week emailed me from OLD and he looked okay but when I read his profile it said he was like 5' 4" .. I am that tall. OMG.. I was like just my luck but how can I date a guy that short. I am not that picky but I just couldnt see myself walking into a place with a guy that short. Besides my ex is 5' 6" and I swore that I wouldnt date a guy that short anymore.. OMG.. Was I wrong??? I think I am growing a very thick skin though to OLD and that is what is needed to do it.. Maybe that is part of the whole process... dont know?

I am thinking that either the guy changes his mind or he found someone else or whatever.The only thing that gets me is that with my friend why not just atleast take the chance and meet since he even said we had so much in common.. but only thing I can think of is that I was good enough for a cyber buddy but not good enough for a date..

Plus it pisses me off because men have more women to choose from.

Hey; A guy

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 03-07-2011 - 8:24am

LOL!

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