Simple Question in need of REAL help!

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Registered: 06-14-2006
Simple Question in need of REAL help!
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Wed, 12-31-2008 - 12:02am

A simple question...

New man I have met, that is amazing.. so much in common.. it's been a couple weeks and he has been pretty good about keeping in contact at least every other day if not everyday.

He is working 12 hour graveyard shifts and has been for about 2 weeks due to crazy amounts of snow. He is in snow removal. I spoke to him on Saturday as I was supposed to visit him (he lives an hour away) on Sunday. He actually texted and said he was really tired and wouldn't be good company and that he would come down on his days off Wed/Thurs and he would call early in the week to chat.

It's now Tuesday night and no call, text or e-mail. I sent him a text tonight asking if he was hanging in there due to crazy work hours and he replied 'tired but yes'.. and that he had to work wed night now. I replied that 'I hoped everything went okay and to give me a call when he has time'. No response after that

Stupid, but I don't know what is going on.. was I wrong to tell him to call when he had time? Stupid move? What do I do next?

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 8:18am

Hi Stella....I'm not sure I have any answers. Quite honestly, not even into dating...just recently having difficulties and probably headed toward divorce.......Anyway,

TanZa2920
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Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 9:59am

Hi stellakat23,


Welcome to the board.

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 3:15pm

Its only been a couple of weeks, not enough time to start wondering what is going to happen.


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Registered: 09-13-2008
Thu, 01-01-2009 - 10:21pm
I'd not contact him again and then if he contacts you then go from there.
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