Slap me..

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2012
Slap me..
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Sun, 10-21-2012 - 1:35am

I think I have a nice repertoire worked in. This can't be done on the first date, but is a good one on the second. Flirt around and pretend that youre long into a relationship and marriage, then say "we just got into an argument, so slap me"...watch the puzzled and confused look on her face...i say "it's ok, just slap me"...she very hesitantly reaches out and taps my cheek...i say "that was a love tap, i wanted you to slap me, not pet me"...she reaches out again and gives a more powerful swing. Depending on the force, you may want to ask a third time, if the second time was again too much of a pat. Looking for a slap that is not a lovetap but not serious enough to leave a mark. Then laugh it off "oww, that may leave a mark :)"

I would like a female opinion on what you would think if you were in this situation.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: xVladx
Sun, 10-21-2012 - 4:48pm

I would think the guy was nuts and I wouldn't do it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2012
In reply to: xVladx
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 1:30am

would you give a gentle tap at least? There is actually a perfect explanation. I will reveal once I get some more responses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2012
In reply to: xVladx
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 1:31am

would you give a gentle tap at least? There is actually a perfect explanation. I will reveal once I get some more responses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2012
In reply to: xVladx
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 1:32am

hmm, weird..double posts. I see the boards are still under migration.

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Registered: 10-16-2006
In reply to: xVladx
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 3:16pm

I don't know how old you are, but at 58, if I were out with a man who did this, I would think it was silly.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2012
In reply to: xVladx
Tue, 10-23-2012 - 2:53am

28.

"silly" exactly what im looking for. The point of this little flirtatious exercise is to make the girl feel more comfortable. Often dates go with both people being extremely stern and cautious to break out of their shells, almost like a job interview. Though there may be hesitation, after the deed is done, there would be more openness and far more trust in the guy seeing that he can laugh it off without getting upset. This is a goldmine move for the guys if done right. Also, while the girl doesnt realize it, she just opened up her own kino set and is comfortable in touching the guy after such a drastic jump of kino in the date.

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Registered: 08-09-2010
In reply to: trail-girl
Sun, 10-28-2012 - 4:58pm

I agree - loco

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Registered: 08-09-2010
In reply to: trail-girl
Sun, 10-28-2012 - 4:58pm

I agree - loco

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-28-2012 - 8:44pm

What is kino?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2012
In reply to: xVladx
Wed, 11-21-2012 - 4:15pm

I'd smack him upside his head so hard it would start spinning around like that girl from the exorcist. Sounds better than yoga for relieving stress. In fact, I'm going to start slapping random men with or without an invitiation. Thanks for the idea, Vlad!

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