Slow or ?

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Slow or ?
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Fri, 04-10-2009 - 12:25am

I have been out on three dates in the past week with a very nice man. He e-mails every day, we've talked a few times on the phone for at least 45 minutes each time, the conversation flows so easily.

And yet...I've gotten a few good-bye hugs, but no kiss. So I wonder...what the heck is going on here? Does he like me or is he just making a new friend? He's so nice. I wasn't overwhelmed at first, but the more I talk to him the more I like him. I just don't want to get more interested is he isn't.

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In reply to: startover96
Fri, 04-10-2009 - 10:50am
Yeah, I wonder. How old is he? Maybe he's either really shy or feels that he doesn't want to come on too strong. Maybe the next time, you could kiss him--a brief one, not coming on too passionate, and see if that gives him the hint.
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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: startover96
Fri, 04-10-2009 - 1:12pm

Wow I think you are very lucky to have met such a nice gentleman that respects you.


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Registered: 03-25-2009
In reply to: startover96
Sat, 04-11-2009 - 8:34pm
I am in the same boat. I have no patience, I want what I want, when I want it. I have met this incredible guy. The first date went well (even good), but no kiss. He emailed me later that night, looking to see how I felt it went. No Games. We quickly made a second date. On the second we discovered that we have a lot in common (almost to much if possible). The date was only suppose to be 2 hours and it turned to six before we even realized it. But at the end of the date I got only a little peck. I wanted to just grab him and really kiss him. I feel the chemistry and he says he does as well, so what the hell. Everyone keeps telling good things come to those who wait.
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Registered: 03-19-2009
In reply to: startover96
Sun, 04-12-2009 - 11:02am

I've been in a similar situation except that it's lasted longer and gone even more slowly--though we met almost 2 months ago, we've only been on a few dates. (We've had trips out of town, illness and extra work keep us from seeing each other.)

Anyway, last night we went out again, and he finally really kissed me. And it was some kiss!

Good luck to you.

Bela