smooth talker or paranoid??

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Registered: 06-23-2007
smooth talker or paranoid??
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Wed, 11-04-2009 - 12:42am

so...ive just met this new guy like 2 weeks ago. he's adorable! he's just seems down to earth but he's started saying all these things on how he thinks im incredible and how i have the best smile ever. And, this worrys me..i know i have my issues i have a really hard time trusting men and the smoother they seem the less i trust him.


How can i stop this, i know im going to scare good men away if i keep acting so jaded? How can i tell if his words are genuine or not? The only thing that makes me think he might be telling the truth is that we've hung out a couple times but he's been really respectful and we havent even kissed yet!!!


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Registered: 06-01-2009
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 7:48pm

Compliments are great, but you'll want to see if his words are backed up with action. Is *hanging out* all you're doing? Is he asking you out? What's the story here?


I'm a girl. That means I want to be treated special. And that means actions speak.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2007
Thu, 11-05-2009 - 11:18pm

Well...

Its true all we have done is hang out. He didnt even kiss me for the first time until last after the yankee game :) which was the 4th time we've hung out but we have been talking via text n phone everyday for the past couple of weeks. I seems like a very respectful guy and he seems to remember minor details about me and such.

It just figures huh.. when a guy is tooo nice and everything a gentleman should be we question and cant get enjoy it. I have been hurt plenty before so its hard for me to put my guard down :(