Suffering From A Dating Headache

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Suffering From A Dating Headache
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Sat, 05-14-2011 - 12:32pm

I have been causally seeing this great guy, we'll call him P.

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Registered: 06-01-2008
Sat, 05-14-2011 - 5:34pm

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sat, 05-14-2011 - 8:26pm
I hope does give me an explanation. He knows the way that my ex-boyfriend dumped me, and even commented how childish and mean it was. Hope P does find it his heart to say something
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 05-14-2011 - 8:31pm

I think that since you've already invited

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sun, 05-15-2011 - 9:54pm

P finally texted me last night, saying that he had to help his friend DJ at a high school prom and thats why we couldn't hang out.

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 9:18pm

P and I talked via text the other day and are going to a Wine Tasting and Paella Festival with a few of my friends on Saturday.

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Thu, 05-19-2011 - 3:19pm

I am sorry but he does seem flaky to me. It would not suprise me at all if again he went AWOL after your next date. His actions tell me that he does not wish to pursue an exclusive serious relationship with you. He will meet up with you for dates when it suits him, or when he has nothing else to do. You seem to be the one initiating communication with him. Of course its absolutely fine for a woman to initiate things but when things start to slip into one-sidedness then you really start to wonder. I conclude that it probably didn't bother him a bit that you have not seen each other in a month. Sorry to be negative on the situation but im just calling it as I see it. I hate to say that I think sleeping with him so soon has possibly invested you more in the relaitonship than he is.

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Thu, 05-19-2011 - 8:39pm
knew that would come back and bite me in the a**
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Registered: 05-19-2011
Thu, 05-19-2011 - 9:05pm

This sucks-but just know you're better than this and deserve much more.