Things moving too quickly

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2005
Things moving too quickly
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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 7:16pm

Hi everyone,


I've never posted to this board before, and I'm not sure if this is the appropriate discussion board for this problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 12:32am

This is my first time on iVillage, too.

Kathy

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2008
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 4:31pm

First,


I wish this was the problem I was having. I am totally the relationship type of girl. Basically, it's not fair to string this guy along. If you know you are not ready to settle down you should let him know, so he could go and pursue someone else who is ready to settle down. I think how you explained it here is perfect to explain to him. Let him know you are newly divorced and explain to him where you are in life with friends and independence. In the future you might see settling down as an option but for now you would like to spend more time learning more about yourself. I also think it is a good idea to take some time after divorce to do this, I just need to get the nerve.


I think it is great for you to acknowledge your feelings and you have the desire to communicate your feelings to him. There is a such thing as the fish that got away, so be careful.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2005
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 5:30pm

Thanks to both of you for your replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2006
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 12:29pm


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