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Things moving too quickly
| Wed, 08-13-2008 - 7:16pm |
Hi everyone,
I've never posted to this board before, and I'm not sure if this is the appropriate discussion board for this problem.

This is my first time on iVillage, too.
Kathy
First,
I wish this was the problem I was having. I am totally the relationship type of girl. Basically, it's not fair to string this guy along. If you know you are not ready to settle down you should let him know, so he could go and pursue someone else who is ready to settle down. I think how you explained it here is perfect to explain to him. Let him know you are newly divorced and explain to him where you are in life with friends and independence. In the future you might see settling down as an option but for now you would like to spend more time learning more about yourself. I also think it is a good idea to take some time after divorce to do this, I just need to get the nerve.
I think it is great for you to acknowledge your feelings and you have the desire to communicate your feelings to him. There is a such thing as the fish that got away, so be careful.
Thanks to both of you for your replies.
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