Total Disinterest
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Total Disinterest
| Fri, 08-15-2008 - 11:27am |
So, my breakup happened about 10 months ago. I've gone through all the channels: sadness, depression, anger, resentment, even trying to be friends with him, and now total stop of all communication. I want to date again and I want a relationship again, however I am having problems connecting with anyone. I'll go out with friends and scope out the guy scene. I may even find someone I like or have a crush on. I may even get asked out. The problem is that after that connection is made with another person I lose complete interest in them. I shut down and try to avoid the person. It is as if once the chase is over I don't care anymore. I've told myself that I have a fear of commitment or just generally scared of connecting with someone again. I just started dating a new guy. We went out last weekend and now I would rather avoid him and there isn't anything wrong with him. Why is this happening? I must have cold feet so should I just force myself back into the dating game? My head wants a new relationship, but my heart says otherwise. What can i do?

Your inner voice or karma, whatever you want to call it is telling you,, you are not ready for a steady relationship.
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