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What Does It Mean?
| Mon, 04-14-2008 - 11:30am |
I have a sticky situation with a neighbor that I need insight on.
We have been friends for 3 years and hang out socially with some of our other neighbors but we don't date. He is in a band and I go see them play every few weeks. Looks of our other neighbors go too.
He is shy and I think that he "thinks" I want to date him whenever I ask him to do casual things like grab a bite to eat. I really value his friendship and that is all. Sometimes, I just don't feel like dining alone.
Do you think if I tell him I think of him like the big brother I never had it will put his mind at ease that I'm not trying to date him? To me, nothing says "friend zone" like telling the guy you think of him like a big brother.
Your thoughts....


Hey I think you need to tell him the true,
I sure hope so. I recently found out that he does this with all of his friends, he is just a homebody who really doesn't like to go out much except when he has to play a show with his band. I also found out that money is pretty tight for him and I'm sure that plays into his wanting to stay home more.