What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2008
What should I do?
2
Mon, 10-18-2010 - 9:08pm

Ok.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2009
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 1:49pm

It's highly rude of her or she's just plain clueless to suggest such an expensive restaurant, whether it be your first date or a date after 4 months, if you're expected to pay, or even if going dutch. Why do you think it would be polite and the only thing to do, just because she is the woman? She's not being polite.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2010
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 3:43pm

As a woman actively dating (although older than you) I would never suggest an expensive restaurant to a man I just met. And I seek out men who are accomplished because intelligence turns me on.