What's on his mind?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
What's on his mind?
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Sun, 03-29-2009 - 6:19pm
Ok, I'm interested in this guy.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2007
Mon, 03-30-2009 - 6:21am
Whoa, can't you wait a li'l longer? There's a possibility that he just plainly wanna flirt just to get your attention.. Some guys are a li'l too insecure that they need some validation of their attractiveness. I suggest you get to know him by befriending him first. Giving him your number without him asking for it is a little bold, isn't it? Besides, it might turns him off if he's the conservative type..Some guys would take it slow when they truly like a girl. This strategy will not only make them feel sure of what they feel but also they take a li'l time to know if the girl they like will turn out into a monster--a NEEDY or CLINGY who desperately needs attention.. Well don't get me wrong. Weigh down your situation into a more objective way of thinking. Never chase a guy.. Giving him your number might make him think you desperately want his attention or in need to have a relationship with him (just because you're rushing things?). Both of you are in the 1st step of dating--ATTRACTION. Unless you wanna take the risk, be brazen and get his number.. After all, who knows you might get what you want ;)
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2006
Mon, 03-30-2009 - 9:40am

If he was interested in dating you he would have asked you out by now.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-30-2008
Mon, 03-30-2009 - 9:20pm

Another approach would be to ask if he could "help you with some class work". That way he gets the phone number and it's easier for him to follow through if he's interested. Also, if he's not interested your exposure is very little.

Either way at your age you can afford to take some chances.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
Mon, 03-30-2009 - 9:47pm
I did give him my number today.