When does the fear go away?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2007
When does the fear go away?
7
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 9:59pm

After about 3 years of SORT OF trying to get back out there, I finally met a really good guy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 12:58am

I think that having those fears can be a healthy thing or at least it is a healthy thing for me personally. That fear reminds me to watch out for red flags and to go slowly.


BUT having said that, I also know that for myself, there comes a time, in the right relationship, with the right person, that I learn to live in the moment and trust that the good times we are having now far out weight the possibility of bad times down the road.

Photobucket

Photobucket
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 10:21am

I think my biggest thing is that my last relationship ended without warning...I had no idea he was unhappy until it was too late to do anything about it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 4:50pm

It sounds like you're off to a good start then.


I also must have a guy who can make me laugh!!! That is in my top 5 requirements. ;0)

Photobucket

Photobucket
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 5:01pm
Yeah...sense of humor is WAY up there....so is "good kisser"....bad kissing is a total dealbreaker for me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Mon, 05-05-2008 - 1:55am

Yes....I remember those kind of kisses and man do I miss that!!! I'm glad you have found it!!


Now if you could only bottle that and share it with others! ;0)

Photobucket

Photobucket
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2007
Mon, 05-05-2008 - 7:38am

Yeah I think I have found it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-30-2007
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 11:50pm

So things have gotten SOOOOOOO much better over the past week and a half.