I don't have any answers as to why but I do understand where you're coming from. I do this same thing. It's like I'm so scared that I'm going to get hurt that I find the first, smallest thing that doesn't go my way as a sign that he really doesn't like me. I seem to invent trouble where there is none and I ignore giant red flags with other guys.
I would also love to know why some people self sabotage their relationships. Maybe if I knew why then I could stop?
I don't have any answers as to why but I do understand where you're coming from. I do this same thing. It's like I'm so scared that I'm going to get hurt that I find the first, smallest thing that doesn't go my way as a sign that he really doesn't like me. I seem to invent trouble where there is none and I ignore giant red flags with other guys.
I would also love to know why some people self sabotage their relationships. Maybe if I knew why then I could stop?