why do guys feel the need to LIE?!
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|Sat, 02-16-2013 - 10:08pm|
I was seeing this guy for 12 weeks. We ended up having a conversation about where we stand etc. He basically said that he gets very busy with work, but he still wants to take things to the next level with me and move forward in our relationship. I was happy to hear that.
So over the next couple weeks we're in touch quite frequently and everything is going well…until one weekend. I told him that I'd love to see him and he says perfect…but he never ends up reaching out to me about hanging out. Finally he calls me on Sunday and tells me he's been so exhausted because of work lately and feels like he doesn't have time to see his/friends etc. So I told him "I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who I see once every 2 weeks, especially since we live in the same city." He tells me "okay well I don't want to keep disappointing you" etc. So I said "maybe it would be better if we just stay friends." He says "yes, but please don't cut me off or ignore my calls/texts, I still want you to be in my life." So I said fine. We hang up.
I'm livid of . Why would you say that you want to move things forward with me when in you don't? And here's the real kicker.
He spent Valentine's Day with another girl. (He told me he was only seeing me and no one else)
A**hole. I would've LOVED to cuss him out in person, but since we're "over" that didn't make any sense. So I just unfollowed him on (which he noticed because he hit up my friend to see if I was alright). Anyway, I just HATE when a guy takes me for a fool. I swear, this is the kind of sh*t that makes you not want to date. I don't EVER plan on answering his calls/texts again. He can go to hell.
Just had to vent.