WHY is he playing mind games?

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Registered: 04-30-2007
WHY is he playing mind games?
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 9:05pm

Really good-looking customer that came in for a few months never talked to me but then all of a sudden shyly slipped me his # and number and invited me to his bday party which I couldn't make to. But we ended up talking for a long week every day and seemed to have a connection and he was very flirty. Then all of a sudden yesterday he texts me and when I text back he never replied.

I got no call/txt today so I texted him "Hi" and he sent me back two weird msgs in gibberish. I asked what it mean....no reply.
When I got on myspace I saw him online and asked through chat "What did that mean?" And he was like "Ohhh that was you?" And I'm thinking "of course......I've only been talkin to u every day for the past week" And he said, "U said Hi" I said "Yeah I know..what was the gibberish about?" He took FOREVER to respond so I sai d"NVM bye"

WTF is going on!? I deleted his number and all his txts because I don't want childish mind games.

Before this weirdness he even came to my work twice a day on the days he usually came in.

Edited 11/3/2009 9:06 pm ET by hunnybunny81105
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Registered: 06-01-2009
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 7:50pm
I think you're so in tune here that you answered your own question!