Why won't he ask me out on a second date?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2010
Why won't he ask me out on a second date?
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 11:19am

We went out to dinner. It went good I thought. Lot's of fun conversation. We didn't do anything after dinner. He sent me a text like 10 minutes later and said he wished he had planned more for us and that we should definitely hang out again. We've talked since, he's told me how much he likes me and how pretty I am (blah blah) but made no effort to hang out again. I've even invited him out twice. The first time he said he had plans, the second time he said he just wasn't going out that night. What gives?!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 10:42am

That is very strange -- I would be confused, too!


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2011
Thu, 05-19-2011 - 9:21pm

Mixed signals are the worst.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2010
Mon, 05-23-2011 - 5:19pm
Make him crave your cute little ass.
Seriously if you put yourself on a golden tray and just offer it to him he will look for something else.
You have to make him jealous girl!! Make him think he has competition
This or text him a nude picture of yourself.
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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 05-24-2011 - 11:02pm

Yhat was the problem it was "Nice"!