Wondering if I'm just being too hard on him ....
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|Thu, 02-21-2013 - 8:38pm|
I started dating this guy at the end of Dec 2012 and things moved pretty quickly for him. In the middle of Jan 2013, he told me he cared for me very much, he wanted to be in a relationship with me at some point, and keeps talking about marriage. I told him that was too fast for me and I just wanted things to happen naturally. I'm also not moving fast with him because he just got out of a relationship at the end of Nov 2012. He has an obsession with Jordan sneakers (He has 80 pairs that he doesn't wear) and he told me when we first met that he just loves to spend money. We live in the same city but he works (and lives in hotel ) in another city most of the time, so we had to celebrate Valentine's Day on the weekend (on Saturday), which was fine. He purchased two more pairs Jordans before that weekend. So, he arrived in town on Friday and he went to a party. On Saturday, he went to a day party and called me while on his way to tell me that he didn't have enough money take me out on our Valentine's date that night and that he wanted to reschedule when he gets back to town 3 weeks later.
Even though I'm not trying to get married right now, I'm 29 years old and I want to be in a serious relationship with that will lead to marriage one day. He did apologize for "making a bad decision" and I pretty much forgave him because I know people make mistakes. But I'm also thinking I'm making a mistake my entertaining him after that happened. I'm not sure what to do...Help!