When is he gonna get a REAL job?
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|Sun, 04-06-2014 - 12:10am|
I been seeing a guy for 4 months now been friends for 2 years. We live seperately, he has a house with his 3 brothers and I have my own apt and car. I work as a Nurse Aide in a hospital and a nursing home. He works as a video game store clerk. We are both 29 years old.
Im soon returning back to school for Medical Assistant and looking into a house of my own. I asked him his goals he says to return to school someday.
Me and the guy got into arguments over money, he doesnt want to go out and spend money, but we always go dutch (my choice). I blurted out "your 29 when are you going to get a real job?". Of course he was pissed, I explained he is barely making it with his 3 brothers and he refuses to be a manager (he says too much responsibility). I asked if this is what he wanted for the rest of his life, he said no.
I also noticed when I say we are going to dinner, he makes no effort to dress... like an adult. I love hello kitty and will sometimes where my hello kitty shirts casually but he never wears anything but comic books shirts. He commented on the way I dress, he says I like to get dressy and he knows people wonder why Im with him. I told him skinny jeans and heels and a cardigan isnt dressy to me, its normal. He never asks me to pay or give him money.
Hes a nice guy, but there is no drive to change his lifestyle :(