Am I being too rushy
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|Sat, 06-14-2014 - 4:55am|
I met this guy through online about a month ago and we have dated 6 times now, the 6th was on just this week's thursday night. He has been the one who initiate all of our dates. I'm starting to like him. I'm 38 and he is 39. We are both divorced with kids.
Then on friday afternoon ( a day after the 6th date), I asked him "are you free to go out again tonite". Below are our conversation:
me (friday afternoon) : are you free to go out again tonite"
He : "im trying to be free (from work), I will let you know as soon as I can".
Me : "no need to rush, we can go out at 10".
He : "sounds good".
Well i assumed that he was okay and we were going out that nite.
By 8pm. I messaged him again
I : "will you be ready by 10" assuming that he was still at work.
No reply, but I know he has read it (from his last seen on whatsapp). Then 20 min later :
i : "are you okay"
Still no reply. I waited til 10.30, 11, 11.30. Then I decided we were not going to go out, then I went to sleep. Before I went to sleep I messaged him again
I : If you think you can't make it, you could have informed me at least. I hope you are okay. Maybe i misunderstoond your " sounds great" to my " we can go out at 10"
Then at 3am in the morning, he replied
He : I'm sorry, i fell asleep. I was home from work just before 9 and thought would lie down for 10 min then i fell asleep. No, you are 100% correct about the plan. I was even going to suggest a place. Sorry again. I just woke up to take a pee. My apologies.
In the morning I replied
I : its alright. I was just a bit worried you had accident or something. I know you would have told me if you couldn't make it.
He : I'm so embarrassed. Sorry again.
My questions is :
- Do you think I am being too rushy ?
- Do you guys think he made up that excuse ?
- What should I do now ?
I feel like a school girl again, but I enjoy it. Thanks in advance for all your feedback.