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|Sun, 03-30-2014 - 5:49pm|
Is it just me or do any of you ladies seem to keep meeting Mr "fixer-upper" online? I have been dating for a while and i have noticed that within the past 2 years or so, i have been meeting mostly men who need to get it together. Men who shouldn't be dating because well... They can't afford to! I have put in so much time and effort into these types of dating situations and i've had enough. I'm tired of meeting guys online who give me the same story that they "just moved here" so they don't have a job, a car, don't have their own place, or all 3. Mind you, these are grown men in their 30's and 40's. I can understand needing to get on your feet because life does happen and i myself have been there. But, i can honestly say that when i was in that place i didn't date because i needed to focus on getting my life together. I have spent so much time talking to guys and giving them the benefit of the doubt while "waiting for them to get a job" in order to be able to afford to take me out or "waiting for their car to get fixed" so they can meet up with me or 'living with their aunt/uncle/grandparent" to help them out. At 1st i fell for it but now i'm getting sick of it. I feel like if you are a man, and you need to get yourself together then please don't go on a dating website if your not prepared to date Why reel us women in and then waste our time! I am looking to settle down again eventually and have a family so i don't have forever. Does anyone else feel the same way or has anyone else noticed that this is a common issue with online dating?