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|Tue, 06-17-2014 - 11:06am|
I've been seeing a guy very regularly for 10 weeks. We met on match. Things seem to be going well, he asks me out when he is available and he calls or texts daily. All of our dates have been great quality, well planned dates. We have a lot of fun, the chemistry is great and we talk about most everything. The only thing we do not talk about is where this is headed. I had been on match a couple of times previously and met him right around the time my subscription was ending so I didn't renew. He had just started on match when we met and his profile is still up. Through old email notifications from him I am still able to see if/when he has been active. It looks like he is still logging on once a week. From everything I read, not asking for exclusivity and still logging onto an online dating sight basically indicate that I am an 'in the meantime' sort of thing. Part of me wants to just give up and walk away because it doesn't appear to be working for him. Part of me wants to be patient and wait it out. My ego is screaming at me to figure something out but I am also pretty sure my ego has been responsible for my lack of success so far. Thoughts?